Living being known as men on this earth are tough from the outside but beautiful from the inside and are well known for their braveness but they fear one thing most…
They are the kind of creatures who can do just anything from possible to impossible for the person they’re committed to.
but the era today seems like not for them,
The most commonly seen thing is that, a man and woman meet, feel affection towards each other, start talking and spending time, fall into a relationship, and fall in love, but the game changes in the last step.
Man fall in true love but woman not.?
Yeah, you can argue that is not wholly true. I know and respect those women, that is why the earth is moving smoothly till now.
But the majority of the present scenario is,
Today, men fear falling in love first because women have started thinking mean and want to take a calculated risk before actually falling for someone.
But here we are talking about love’ an emotion directed by the divine god.
In which there is no control of anyone. Then how is the human category (woman) able to manipulate the matrix?
The whole truth can’t be revealed as we cannot look inside everybody’s mind.
However, women can do this because of man itself.
God made man as a simple & straight kind, he doesn’t think too much, especially in sustaining a relationship.
They do what their mind and heart suggest on the movement.
On the other hand, a woman thinks about all the related consequences first before making decisions, especially in the case of relationships.
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But, calculated risk is good to take especially in today’s cunning world – you say!
And at least I agree with that too, But can you say it for feelings too, maybe yes if you’re emotionally unstable.
This cause-and-effect thinking of risk calculation in love is becoming a flood of so, many problems to the current gen.
A few points below will highlight the effect of this thinking:
Men are demanded to be strong in every way.
In today’s fascinating society, you heard of Sigma Male (a term for strong men in all ways) is quite popular among youngsters these days on social media.
Yeah, related to that illusion, girls have imagined their upcoming partners as Sigma or at least not less than that.
As a man, you have to be strong, protective, financially free, stable, and blah…blah…all…
Which, a man already tried much to do in his life, but it’s not enough for her yet.
Am not saying men should be weak, instead am saying your expectations must be realistic as per your partner’s compatibility.
Men are pissing from women bending laws in society.
To focus on this one point, I somehow felt I had to write this whole article.
Never before have there been so many fault cases registered against men related to crimes, harassment, abuse, divorce, property division and even Rape.
Some of the cases I know, personally.
Just read some “False Rape Cases” to know the unlimited numbers of false cases registered that destroyed numerous men’s life.
This is happening cause our law is too much bent towards women. For eg. there are 100s of laws and institutes for a women’s rape case, but not a single one in men’s harassment.
Do law and society believe man doesn’t need a law for protection?
And these things awake men’s fear, what if I loved and all she was calculating after effect?
You also know real examples, especially amongst celebs.
Men become valueless in front of a second option.
I love chocolate, whoa there’s an ice cream wow so sweet. What should I eat ahh he has ice cream dipped in chocolate, I am set.
Yes, we become substitutes whenever a new flavour comes in.
Sorry guys but as a man, I have to say this so that this generation of women understands.
WE MEN FEAR A LOT – to not become a second option.
“Those who comprehend, comprehend.”
Women expecting too much.
Here I may be biased but fuck those Korean, Japanese and Turkish dramas. Which sets a mark of being loved by a boy in today’s scenario.
In reality, love is much different than it sounds, it takes a lot of tests of lover and beloved. But both who touched its essence pass like an adventure.
I know some respectful girls who accepted to live in adverse with their lover, and as stated they came out of it which turned all the back toil into an adventure.
You may ask – “Should I just jump into love without thinking, without considering the future?”
This is contradictory. And I have my personal opinion on it.
The first and undeniable point is that if you’re in love you cannot think about a calculated future.
But if it comes to a marriage or arranged marriage, you should consider calculations.
Women chasing independence.
In history, women have been broken many times.
From सती प्रथा, selling, mortgage to today chopping in pieces.
Is there any crime against women that has not happened, which I feel is a blot on the human race?
As of that, today woman have started to make themself strong, complete and independent. So that in any worse scenario, they don’t have to look upon someone else.
I believe, we 100% agree on that.
But from the man’s side, it becomes fearful when a men give his all to make a woman independent and after becoming successful the first step she takes is to remove that man from life and climb up the ladder with someone more advantageous.
This point itself is right or wrong so, we can’t stand with any one scenario.
We have examples of many independent women becoming opportunistic.
And also many women who support their partner first after achieving independent.
Is more independence making women opportunistic?
I wanna know, in comments!.
TO understand this article better" read - "Differences Between Men and Women".
In the end
Love is the most fantastic feeling a human can have in life.
But seems like the scenario has changed from the female perspective.
If you think that!, you are still not getting me right.
Yes: love is still the fantastic 🤩 feeling, no doubt. I believe in it, you Believe in it. Everyone does, and so is this world moving.
I’m just highlighting how changing trends affect men’s perspectives, with no intention of criticizing women in any way.
So, don’t judge or blame any ‘one side.
But, I must ask a question ⁉️
Is love different for Men…?
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